Wedding planning and wedding coordination made crazy-seamless and wildly fun—for couples who want to savor their engagement and celebrate without limits 





Of all the things you have (an amazing family, strong faith, the mind to know you should never turn down a piece of cake)—infinite time and resources aren’t on the list. You need a seasoned wedding planner you can trust to offer honest guidance and expertise—so you can relax, raise a glass, rock the heck out of that new ring…and remain focused on what really matters: your marriage.

you want to focus on the fun

i see you

celebrate you

support you

make it fun for you

keep it real with you

aisle always:

As a born leader with a servant’s heart, a creative mind and the kind of sweet tooth that knows its way around a wedding cake—I can say with confidence: wedding planning isn’t just my passion, it’s my calling. I’m here to serve it to you straight, advocate fiercely for your best interests, and bring your vision to life in a way you and yours will cherish for a lifetime to come.

A Charlotte wedding planner who makes the process feel like a breath of fresh air

i'm pamela



Let’s keep this party going

Investing in the right wedding planner is the difference between spending your engagement under endless tension and at the mercy of tedious tasks—and spending it strengthening your relationship and building the foundation for a beautiful marriage to come (oh and tasting cake...lots of cake).

If you’re ready to keep your eyes on the prize and pass the details off to a trusted professional—you’re going to love the experience waiting for you at Aisle Say Yes.

It’s about your partnership

Here, it’s never just about a party...

Here, it’s never just about a party...

kurt & brittany

Pamela and her crew are a MUST have. She was so helpful and responsive throughout the process, she helped calm any nerves that I had and reminded me of things I had forgotten. My sanity and my wedding would not have been the same without her. My guests raved about how helpful and professional she was. She followed through with all of my wants and the vision that I had for my wedding. I could not say enough kind words and express how amazing and professional she is! She's a serious must have!

John & liz

I could not have planned this wedding without Pamela. She was extremely professional and very real. She was able to balance being the planner but also had empathy as to what it was like being a bride during a pandemic! Every single thing I envisioned for our wedding day came to fruition because of the help I received from Pamela. She was very prompt with returning my calls/texts/emails and always followed up with me keeping me in the loop about everything. The day of our wedding was absolutely PERFECT!

Arthur & Nina

The first conversation with Pamela was via telephone and her energy exuded a person that loved weddings. Initially I was apprehensive because she sounded too good to be true but once we met in person it was a no brainer to let her handle our big day. Pamela is professional, prompt with responding and goes above and beyond to help your vision become a reality. Most importantly she gives honest advice and you will feel like you have a best friend by your side helping plan one of the most important memories you will create. 

Christian & Stephanie

Pamela at Aisle Say Yes was absolutely amazing! Out of all of the vendors and groups that we worked with for our big day, there is NOBODY that we would more highly recommend than Pamela and Aisle Say Yes! She was extremely organized and had great communication and attentiveness to help keep us as stress free as possible. We could not imagine going through this process without her in our corner!

Kevin & Dominique

When I was looking for a wedding planner, it was important to work with someone that had passion, knowledge and was friendly. Pamela was all of this and then more. Listening to her purpose and how she wants her couples to feel during the process was what sealed the deal for us. For some, planning a wedding is stressful, but I felt calm and collected knowing that I had constant communication and updates throughout the entire process.